To answer two frequently asked questions - yes - I do look good in a kilt, and - no - I don't wear anything under it.

Well, now for the personal bits,  I am 6', 215lbs, used to have brown hair but now it has been turned to grey after all these years with Duggy.  I usually have a trimmed beard or goatee or at holiday time bare! I like days out on the beach or prowling around historic houses and museums. Enjoy the theatre and have recently been converted to Star Trek - still not as fanatical as Duggy (thankfully).

I love to travel either in a package or on my own.

On the X rated side I am  usually a top bear. However this does not mean that I am only mean and moody (well Duggy and Martin would tell you I was) and hang out at the Hoist dressed in Chaps waiting for some poor defenceless cub to be caught in my claws (what nights is it open - given myself some ideas).  I also like.... why not ask and I will tell you!! But do remember if you wave the right hanky colour at me and I am in that particular mood then who knows what might happen.

Lets see, I am a forty something, average looking, hard working bloke who likes the better things in life but doesn’t always get them, sigh.

Of both Scottish and English heritage so can justifiably claim to be British. (I also look great in a kilt and yes everything, under the kilt, is in perfect working order, thanks for asking.)

I love travel, scuba diving, theatre, cinema, reading, good restaurants and good company.

I am quiet to start with but that is only because I am a bit shy, but that usually only lasts for a short time until I get to know you, then look out <grin> or is that growl?

The personal bits; 6', 180lbs, cropped hair and usually sport a trimmed goatee, although on holiday tend to go clean shaven as the goatee makes the mask leak when diving.

Not really into the scene but sometimes like to go to a sauna or bar.

I am almost exclusively top. I don’t have a particular “type” it depends on the setting and mood.

If you want to know anything else - just ask - I won't bite - unless you want me to!

I'm a 43 year old beary guy from South London, UK.  

I live with my partners of a number of years, Tom and Martin, in Chafford Hundred, Essex

I am one of the many people living with HIV infection - it has now been more than 17 years - and I have never felt better!

So - what do I do with myself ?  

During the day I am employed as a book keeper for a small company in the City of London. What else do I get up to ?

When I do escape, oops, get out, I like nothing better than a good film [preferably a Sci-Fi or thriller], a good meal [give me Thai or Italian anytime], a good theatrical presentation, the chance to go for a dive (scuba) in warm water, or........

As far as the scene goes, my interests cover anything beary, leathery and horny!   If time and weather allow...the exhibitionist in me gets out. I also love taking photos - so if you need any for websites or profiles, let me know.  

Martin and I are also on the look-out for other scuba divers - get in touch of you are out there! 

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